When I ordered a set of bulgogi in Seoul, the least I expected was to have a huge tray delivered to my table.
The tray was filled with delicious food, a steaming hotplate of meat, grilled fish, rice, seaweed soup and 6 other side dishes. Yep, there were 6 in all. It felt like a spread for the rich. I got all these for just KRW12,000 (SGD14/USD11).
BUT! And it was a HUGE BUT!!
I looked on those 6 side dishes with worry, mostly because they were ALL vegetables.
For those who know me, this is their time to snigger. AT ME.
Sha? Eating vegetables? Really?
Yes, I confess that I’m a picky eater and vegetables are right at the bottom of my list.
I picked up one of them. It had leaves and stalks. I put it in my mouth and I chewed. It tasted good. Next one, I ate one piece and moved on to the next dish after one bite. I continued tasting each one from each dish.
And then I left it alone, happily eating my meat and my rice.
And then I heard whispers behind me. The ahjummas (shop assistants here) were all watching me eat, probably because I was eating by myself.
I began to eat self-consciously.
I could feel their eyes on me with each spoonful that I took. I felt bad for leaving the dishes full so I slowly started to eat the vegetables in front of me.
Some were good and enjoyable. There was a few that did not sit well with me and I abandoned it after trying to eat as much as possible without offending them.
There was also huge basket of leaves for me to make a wrap with the meat.
One ahjumma came over to cut up my meat and pushed the basket towards me, urging me to eat.
I sheepishly smiled and reluctantly grabbed for the first leaf, And then almost choked when the taste of mint spread through my mouth. Did I just eat mint leaf??? I chewed as fast as I could.
At the end of the meal, I was proud to leave the restaurant, having finished almost all that was on that tray, including the vegetables.
So, this incident left an impression on me because I was not allowed to be a picky eater in this situation. Since then, I would say that I have been more open to eating my vegetables, especially when overseas.
Okay, wait, I have to be truthful here. I will say that my travels did make me more open to vegetables but only when I like the ones served. I did say I am a picky eater!!! 🙂
Are you a picky eater when travelling like me? Has travel changed any habits of yours?Please do share!
Sha maybe we could go together. You eat the meat and I will eat the vegetables and we will make a fabulous team!
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Awesome!! That would do fabulously!! I can just imagine how perfect our meals would be together…HahaHaha…:)
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I think it would actually solve both our problems in the food department .:)
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Really? Hahaha….but I do try to make a conscious effort with my veges though…i always tell myself to BEHAVE LIKE AN ADULT…but when I see something I like?? Thus my pickiness…hahaha…:)
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I don’t eat red meat and there isn’t a veggie I don’t love. Problem solved if we partner up. 🙂
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Haha…absolutely…we should partner up…one day…:)
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Well it does look like a challenge. Sounds as if you did very well. I ordered tripe soup in Sarajevo because I was reading some novels where our hero was always eating it in Turkey. The waiter asked me if I knew what I had ordered. I said yes. It was really delicious.
Travel is about new experiences.
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Haha, that’s a good one, I also sometimes like to try some things from dramas or movies. Travel is indeed about new experiences…you only need to be open to it…:)
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When travelling I score an epic fail when it comes to foreign food. I’m not adventurous – it has a lot to do with my peanut allergy, but nevertheless, I sadly dont get to try a lot of the local cuisine, depending where I am. I can’t stomach spicy food either, so I am naturally picky!
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Lol, you are travelling with lots of restrictions here, so I think you can be forgiven for not being too adventurous with your food when travelling…:)
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Im not picky at eating, but Im not a fan of vegetable at all hahahaha
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Haha!! We have similar tastes in that! I’m not such a big fan either! Haha! 😀
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yes we do hahahaha 😀
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Those side dishes are called Ban Chan and most all dishes you order comes with them. Food sharing/eating together is an important part of Korean culture so the ban-chan is supposed to be shared. 🙂 Koreans believe sharing food brings people closer so you rarely see people eat by themselves. 🙂
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Yeah, but I have seen other people eating by themselves there. It depends on the kind of food that you are having, I wouldn’t be eating bbq meat by myself there either. 🙂
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Haha, yes, that would be too much food. We can share! I will eat most of the veggies. 🙂
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Awesome, I have so many people willing to help me with my veggies….I can ALMOST feel ashamed of myself as an adult….>.<…hahaha
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I’m not really picky and I always want to try new foods and flavours but there are few things I don’t eat (or at least try to avoid eating) even when travelling – one of them are mushrooms. I just don’t like them. They just don’t taste good. Sometimes I’ve been offered some food with mushrooms in it and I’ve eaten it just because it would be rude to refuse.. But ugghhh, hopefully that won’t happen too often!
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Haha, that’s like me and vegetables…sometimes, you just can’t help but be forced to eat it….hahaha…:)
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I think I’m picky in the complete opposite way of you. Since I’m a vegetarian I LOVE vegetables 🙂 I totally get a kick out of eating weird and exotic fruits and veggies in other countries.
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Lol, for you to be a vegetarian, yes, you would have to love your vegetables. I don’t really like them but I do have vegetables that I like a lot so I would eat them, just not ones that I cannot identify…haha but what’s the most exotic fruit or veggie that you have tried? Just curious…:)
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Well since you live in Singapore, I’m sure these are a norm for you. But my all time favorites are mangosteen and dragon fruit! The first time I tried a mangosteen I had no clue how to eat it!!
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Wow…really? Those are pretty hard to get for you… I like mangosteens as well but they are seasonal here so we don’t always have it available…:)
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Traveling has made me less picky, though I’ll admit my pickyness has gotten in the way of eating some very delicious things. I don’t really eat Kimchi while here in Korea but am not alone. Some Koreans don’t eat Kimchi, believe it or not!
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Me too! I’m still picky but just not as bad as I used to be.
But really? Koreans who don’t eat kimchi?? That seems unheard of…hahaha..but I’ll take your word for it since you would know better. 🙂
I would say that kimchi (the cabbage ones) is one of the things that I’ve learnt to eat and enjoy since I eat korean food often. I do not fancy the other types of kimchi, though, especially if it involves raw seafood in it…:)
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Ah, I love the radish ones and there’s a variety down near us called Gat Kimchi. It’s mustard leaf and really popular on a big island near my town, called Dolsan.
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Great for you Sha! I’m so glad to read that you succeeded in eating it all. I hate hate hate HATE when I see people leave restaurant with food still on their table. It breaks my heart and it can disturb my mind for days. It’s understandable when you didn’t expect something from what you thought you ordered. The last restaurant I went to, the food looks good but they serve big. If people can’t finsih it, why not get it a ‘to go’. They didn’t do it. They just wasted food. Do me and you a favor, if you are picky with what was served to you, give it somebody else. Sorry, I just hate food being wasted by priviledge people when other less fortunate have to scavenge for it.
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Lol, yeah, I get that..I try to eat what I order but sometimes it comes with things that I don’t really like so I will pick it out…haha…but I swear I eat everything else otherwise….my size vouches for me…;)
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Lol… you don’t like vegetables?? I love all the Korean banchon. Sooo tasty and healthy! I think the minty leaf you had was a kind of sesame leaf. Very common for wrapping beef in a leaf here. 🙂
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Haha…vegetables are usually not part of my diet…I have to consciously make myself eat them..but I learnt to enjoy kimchi now! Oohhh…is that sesame leaf? I tell you, having that burst of minty taste in my mouth was so unexpected, I wanted to spit it back out…I’m more used to have the lettuce to wrap with but not this!! Haha…but well, it was a good learning experience..I really ate all the banchan even though I didn’t recognise them…:)
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LoL I know what you are saying here. I used to be very picky about my food, I needed by usual everytime. But when I got myself introduced to Travelling, I understood tasting different food is also a an experience and comes as a package for love of travel. Thankfully I am not so picky now, I can eat and enjoy different food.
Loved it.
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Oh yes, that’s precisely my point! I too end up eating some things I wouldn’t otherwise have eaten if I had not been traveling. 🙂
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Ha ha. Avoiding veggies in Korea might be quite a challenge:) I’m not a picky eater, I eat anything that comes my way. Dogs, snakes, fermented cabbage, bring it on! 🙂
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lol, that’s really being adventurous with your food! But I do agree that it is hard to avoid vegetables in Korea…:)
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